Randy Pausch’s "last lecture" – a must-see

I’m late on this: You might have read about computer science professor Randy Pausch’s valedictory lecture at Carnegie-Mellon University, summarizing his career. A 46-year-old husband and father of three small children, he’s dying of metastasized pancreatic cancer (but you’d never know it to watch him).

Dr. Pausch’s lecture is up on YouTube, broken out into ten-minute segments.  [UPDATE: Good Morning America has a nine-minute segment with highlights and a Diane Sawyer interview with him; his Web page at C-MU has more links.] He’s a lively and entertaining speaker who obviously follows what Christians and Jews call the Summary of the Law. He doesn’t dwell at all on his illness; his life lessons are well worth the time. 

I can’t really make my teenagers do much anymore, but I’m going to strongly encourage them to watch the video. Non-computer people might be most interested in:

  • Part 1
  • Part 6, starting at about 0:30 into it (things start to get poignant at about 1:10)
  • Part 7, especially starting at about 8:10 where he surprises his wife
  • Part 8 — he gets to the lessons learned. Starting at about 3:20, he reveals a final “head fake” that will have you in tears if you weren’t already.

Dr. Pausch’s talk was one of a series of “last lectures” being done by academics to provide an overview of their disciplines. According to a CBS News blog piece today, the video has been downloaded nearly a million times:

. . . “Last lectures” have become popular on college campuses. It’s where the professor speaks as if he’s dying and has one last chance to convey all his most important wisdom to his students. It was a painfully simple assignment for Randy.

He IS dying.

Randy has pancreatic cancer which has now spread to his liver. I asked him if he would be around for Christmas. He said, “50/50”. I asked, “Father’s Day?”. He said, “I wouldn’t buy me anything.” It was a rare somber moment.

Until you start talking about his three small children or his wife, Randy is able to stay remarkably upbeat. In his lecture at Carnegie Mellon he started by announcing that he’d experienced a death bed conversion – paused -smirked – and said, “I bought a Macintosh.” The place erupted.

I first read about Dr. Pausch’s talk in a Wall Street Journal piece ($) last week; today’s WSJ ($) has a follow-up report about the “huge public reaction” to the lecture:

… his talk was a riveting and rollicking journey through the lessons of his life. It was also his last lecture, since he has pancreatic cancer and expects to live for just a few months.

After he spoke, his only plans were to quietly spend whatever time he has left with his wife and three young children. He never imagined the whirlwind that would envelop him. As video clips of his speech spread across the Internet, thousands of people contacted him to say he had made a profound impact on their lives. Many were moved to tears by his words — and moved to action. Parents everywhere vowed to let their kids do what they’d like on their bedroom walls. * * *

Near the end of his lecture, Dr. Pausch had talked about earning his Ph.D., and how his mother would kiddingly introduce him: “This is my son. He’s a doctor, but not the kind who helps people.”

It was a laugh line, but it led dozens of people to reassure Dr. Pausch: “You ARE the kind of doctor who helps people,” wrote Cheryl Davis of Oakland, Calif.

Dr. Pausch feels overwhelmed and moved that what started in a lecture hall with 400 people has now been experienced by millions. Still, he has retained his sense of humor. “There’s a limit to how many times you can read how great you are and what an inspiration you are,” he says, “but I’m not there yet.”

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12 responses to “Randy Pausch’s "last lecture" – a must-see”

  1. Redlefty Avatar

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.
    I just watched the full video tonight, complete with the intro speaker and the awards/honors at the end. My wife’s out of town but I’ll watch it again with her next week.

  2. karen Avatar
    karen

    Is God an important part of his equation in living a fulfilled life?

  3. Steve Avatar
    Steve

    I too found it very surprising that this guy denies any real mention of God when speaking about living a fulfilling life. He may know God but he nearly denies it when asked if this experience drew him closer to God, in one statement saying that he did not know but it has given him more faith in man. The way I see it God has Faith in man, Man should have Faith in God. From Matthew.. “For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?”

  4. marcella Avatar

    I AM SO GLAD THAT SOMEONE BROUGHT THIS UP. IT REALLY MADE ME LOOK AT THE LECTURE DIFFERENTLY WHEN I REALIZED THAT HE DENIED GOD. HE SAID HIS FATHER WAS THE MOST CHRISTIAN MAN HE EVER KNEW YET GOD WAS NEVER A PART OF THE LECTURE, DIANNE SAWYER INTERVIEW-OR OPRAH SHOW. SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HES ANGRY WITH GOD FOR TAKING AWAY HIS HAPPINESS. I THINK THAT THE COMP. GRAPHICS VIDEO HE SHOWED(IN THE LECTURE) FROM ONE OF HIS STUDENTS WAS A METAPHOR FOR HOW HE FEELS ABOUT GOD-ANGRY. ITS A SHAME HE DIDN’T LET HIS KIDS HAVE MOST IMPORTANT GIFT. THE GIFT OF ETERNAL LIFE.BUT I GUESS THAT MESSAGE DOESN’T SELL BOOKS OR GET YOU ON OPRAH. HE SOLD OUT FOR MENS APPLAUSE.

  5. A friend Avatar
    A friend

    I was a classmate and colleague of Randy’s. What someone wrote on this forum, that he “sold out for man’s applause” is grossly wrong, and speaks judgmentally from ignorance.
    I, too, wish Randy had made it a point to tell the Gospel to his audience — especially now that the audience has grown huge. I would if I were in his place. Of course if he had, his video might well not have become instantly famous on youtube; Oprah and the rest very well might not have invited him; and you’d never have known to complain. That’s all up to God. Randy had no clue it was all going to happen, and I know him well enough to know that those things wouldn’t have much effect on how he gave a talk.
    Randy has Christian commitment and involvement, but he is not “highly evangelical’ (for lack of a better term). If he’s not actually saved, I’m among those accountable for his blood, because I don’t think I ever sat down and talked seriously about the Gospel with him 25 years ago. I could have; I should have. But for all we know he may, in his own quiet way, have led 100 students to Christ over the years, or planted a lot of seeds.
    He’s made it clear that he did the lecture mainly for his own children. But do you think that’s the *only* thing he intends to leave them? I know little of the internals of his family, and with respect, the other writers to this forum almost certainly know nothing of it.
    Randy, like all of us, won’t be saved by being “evangelical” or by evangelizing — we’re saved by faith in Christ. There are many, many people who have faith in Christ but don’t do any evangelism at all — sad but true. And if you or I is judged on whether we ever missed a great opportunity to preach the Gospel, we’re all dead.
    Maybe Randy *is* mad at God about his illness, and about never getting to see him kids grow up; about knowing that his youngest probably won’t even have an image of him in her head. In the little I’ve talked to him lately, he didn’t seem mad at God; but there aren’t many people who wouldn’t be. Have you ever been mad at God? Of course we’re always wrong when we’re mad at God. Duh.
    Perhaps we should all exercise a little Christlikeness, and pray for Randy in his time of extreme need. And pray you’ll never be in nearly so painful a place yourself. For most people it’s a long time before they can look back at something life-shattering and say it drew them closer to God. It’s not my place to judge Randy for not being there yet.
    Randy’s not interested in fame or fortune. He’s a dying man trying to leave a little bit of himself for his children to know. That’s not “selling out for man’s applause.”

  6. Anonymous Avatar
    Anonymous

    A few years ago, there was another person at CMU… an amazing woman, a force of nature, some would call her the spirit of the university. Her name was Barbara Lazarus. After beating breast cancer 27 years previously, it returned. She was our mentor and my friend. Not one day has passed that I don’t think of her, that I don’t miss her. She’s been gone almost 5 years.
    She didn’t hide her cancer, nor did she make a public spectacle of it. She kept on working, writing, serving as committee chair for the Associate Deans Council and the Associate Deans for Graduate Policy. She remained the head of her division which comprised of the Undergraduate Research Initiative, the Graduate Programs Office, The Financial Resources Advising Center, the Intercultural Communication Center as well as her own office, the Office of the Associate Provost for Academic Affairs. She didn’t miss a beat, and if it was hard for her well those of us who cared made sure that that we kept things going because that’s what she had always done for us.
    Wednesdays was her chemo day… she would go to chemo, come to work, and get on with it. During this time, her assistant of 11 years also when through cancer – and this amazing woman had the strength to help and support her. Almost every day until she left us, everyone kept on working right beside her because she was such an inspiration. She engendered that kind of loyalty. Even after she was gone, she left a legacy at the University for the undergraduate students. She also didn’t get the chance to see her children, Ben and Maggie, grow up.
    Her name was Dr. Barbara Lazarus. In the time that I knew her, I saw her change people’s lives in ways that can’t even be imagined. She was an inspiration, an advisor, mentor and friend to almost everyone she met.
    I can’t say that knowing Barbara drew me closer to God. What I can say was that I learned how to be a better person for knowing her – how to see the best in everyone, how to keep going when things look virtually impossible, how to be grateful for every single moment that I’m alive. What I can also say is that if God did make man and woman in his image, I saw the spark of the Divine in Barbara’s eyes, in her laugh, and in her bravery.
    There are silent heroes. I’m quiet certain if any of us suggested that she go on Oprah or Good Morning America she’d have thought we were nuts…and laughed until she’d cried. She would have been gracious, but said to send someone else in the Department. She tell them to go to talk about our mission – changing the face of Women and Minorities in Science and Engineering, rather than her cancer. She was on a mission to change things, to make things better for anyone and everyone… there wasn’t a day that I knew her that she didn’t do that for at least half a dozen people.
    I post this anonymously because I still work in academia – and I don’t want to insult Randy or minimize what he experiencing… cancer is truly hell on earth the victim, their family, and their friends. I just want honor Barbara’s amazing bravery and sacrifice for CMU with her strength and quiet dignity. She was amazing.

  7. Eric Avatar
    Eric

    I too thought Randy’s message was awe inspiring. What a tremendous example of goodness.
    As some have mentioned in this forum, I do feel it unfortunate that he didn’t take it one step further and explain the ORIGIN of such goodness for the roadmap to life.
    The credit belongs to GOD. We are all saved by faith in Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior who made the ultimate and greatest sacrifice so that “whoever believe in him shall not perish, but have eternal life” John 3:16.
    Perhaps God used this wonderful man to reach others, despite not mentioning it directly in his last lecture.
    I second the opinion of one writer who seems to have known Randy…maybe he has planted the seeds that can help thousands seek guidance from GOD our creator. After all, we’re talking about it right now even after his passing.
    God Bless him and I pray that the Lord receives him in good favor. Randy, thx for having the courage to spread a good message to the world. Many of us have strong Christian beliefs, but often fail to give testimony to others that need to hear the word. I am one of these so I am certainly no one to judge.

  8. Karl Avatar
    Karl

    What did Dr. Pausch say that indicated he was saved by the Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ?

  9. Jill Avatar
    Jill

    I think you’re trying to look at the trees instead of the forest. Pausch’s lecture was nothing more than a message to leave his children in a public setting. Whatever his faith involves is private, and he is not required to share it with his students and colleagues. Living by example is the best way to evangelize, after all… not by constantly questioning the faith of others and prodding them as if it’s any of your business. However, to sate your intrusive curiosity, the Pausch family are members of the Universalist Unitarian Church. What does that indicate regarding Randy’s personal walk with God? Next to nothing… and I think he’s entitled to have just one thing kept to himself after suffering his last year of life so publicly. Why not try to benefit from what he did say instead of pointing out what is lacking?

  10. anonymous Avatar

    Randy Pausch missed a golden opportunity to offer his kids something more important than lessons learned, optimism, and humor.
    Hope.
    He may have done so in private, we’ll never know. What we do know is that while he had the world stage, he did not mention the part about spending eternity in heaven with Christ. That message does not receive high ratings on Oprah and the like. Instead performing for an audience of one, he settled instead for the talk show circuit and the accolades of men.
    Millions of people think his message is inspirational, when in fact it is very sad. Probably the greatest head fake of all.

  11. lianne Avatar
    lianne

    Randy Pausch’s private beliefs are none of our business. With his remaining months dwindling, he generously shared time with the public, kept people updated on his condition–and when the questions kept coming–shared as best he could the knowledge he had gained during 47 years on Earth. It was a tremendous, incredible effort. RIP, Randy Pausch. You truly lived.

  12. Reality Avatar
    Reality

    Hahaha, Atheists are cool. Christians are fools. All you Christians will burn, God loves doubt. He hates blind obediance. You will fry.

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