The Early Church’s Teaching About Marriage Was: Don’t?

Dale Rye, a frequent thoughful commenter at TitusOneNine, offers this summary of the early church’s teachings on marriage, teachings which traditionalists often cite in criticizing same-sex unions:

If one were to ask the Greek and Latin Fathers to define “the Biblical truth as expressed about marriage,” they would quote Luke 20:35: “Those who are considered worthy of a place in that age and in the resurrection from the dead neither marry nor are given in marriage.”

As St. Jerome put it (and he was not the most extreme of his contemporaries), “[I]n view of the purity of Christ, all sexual intercourse is unclean.”   Therefore, “If this is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry” (Matt. 18:20).

Paul agreed “It is well for a man not to touch a woman” (I Cor. 7:1).  As the Council of Trent put it, “If anyone says that the married state surpasses that of virginity or celibacy, and that it is not better and happier to remain in virginity or celibacy than to be united in matrimony, anathema sit.”

(Extra paragraphing added, emphasis edited.)

The early church’s survival strongly suggests that its members did not slavishly follow those particular teachings on marriage.  One wonders, then, why some traditionalists insist that today’s church must do so.

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2 responses to “The Early Church’s Teaching About Marriage Was: Don’t?”

  1. Rick Jones Avatar
    Rick Jones

    I’ve been a fan of Dale’s posts for as long as I have been reading these blogs. Has anyone encouraged him to start his own blog. If his point of view was more prevalent I might still be a memeber of TEC, instead of leaving for Rome.
    I, too, have been puzzled that the traditionalists can so blithely ignore NT scripture that doesn’t agree with their almost idolatrous view of the marraige and family, something St.Paul certainly would not have encouraged.
    It would be nice to know if there is a

  2. Jose Avatar
    Jose

    That verse was given in reference to the resurrection and that people are not married then nor are they given in marriage during the resurrection. In I Timothy 3:1-3 it is stated,”1Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his heart on being an overseer,[a] he desires a noble task. 2Now the overseer must be above reproach, the husband of but one wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.”
    And it is stated about those religions or denominations who teach otherwise in I Timothy 4:1-5,” 1The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. 2Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth. 4For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.”
    So please enough with the misinterpretations and listen to the truth of the Word, not you version of it. Only the Truth can save you, not belief in false doctrine.

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